5 Tips for Staying Safe While Online Dating*

Getting back to the dating world when you’ve been single for a long time (or even a short time sometimes depending on circumstances) it can feel a little daunting. Especially this past year when the only way to meet someone new has been through online or app dating. Luckily, everyone is doing the same, so there is a high chance you will have managed to make a connection if you have already been wading in the waters of online dating. If you’re a bit lost on where to even begin, you’re in luck as there is a huge array of sites to sign up too. If you’re interested in keeping in local, or something more niche, why not try dating in your area with something like a Fife Dating Site, these are easy to find, as they’re a top hit when using a search engine for Fife Dating. Pretty much every area in the country has their own dedicated area for singles which makes it easier to find a match.

The most important thing to consider when you’re online dating though is staying safe. It’s easy for people to hide who they really are so you need to take extra precautions before meeting someone. Here are 5 safety tips for you to remember;

Do Your Research

And by research I mean a quick Google search. Hopefully this will connect you to some form of social media so you can see photos or snippets of conversation outside your online dating profiles and conversations. Remember, people online dating are going to present their best self, and while I don’t mean go on full stalker mode, you need to at least look out for red flags.

Use a Google Voice Number Instead of Your Own

Having been in the situation of having to change my number on more than one occasion due to men I think this is a great idea. You can keep your personal number for anyone you feel comfortable with and this way they can’t use your number to find you on social media! Remember to also both talk on the phone and video call before meeting someone.

Use Public Transport if You Can and Meet in a Public Place

Make everything public. It’s always best to consider worst case scenarios. By arriving to your date by public transport means you can’t be followed to a car and end up getting yourself trapped. Meeting in a public place is hugely important, there will always be someone around if you need to make a quick get away.

Tell Someone Else The Details

While you might often feel the need to keep your dating life quiet, especially in the beginning. If you’re meeting someone offline it’s always best to tell someone else the details of the date or meet up. Let them know the time, the place, what you’re doing and even go as far as sending a selfie before you head off. Better to be safe than sorry.

Stay Sober

So this one is probably a little controversial, as consent is consent. The unfortunate thing is, not everyone sees it that way. If you’re drunk you have less control and this applies to both men and women. After a few drinks you could be coerced into something you regret and would have firmly declined while sober. It’s always best to keep your wits about you on those first few dates.